Meri and Kody welcomed their first child together, daughter Mariah, after struggling to conceive for several years.

Credit: TLC

September 2010

The Brown family took over the TLC spotlight with the premiere of their reality series. Season 1 introduced Kody’s fourth wife, Robyn, the first new spouse to enter the family in more than 15 years.

After Mariah’s birth, the couple tried for baby No. 2 but Meri ultimately suffered a miscarriage at 10 weeks. She looked back on the heartbreaking loss during a 2012 episode of the TLC reality show. “I completely assumed that after I had Mariah, it would be very easy for me to conceive again,” Meri said at the time. “And that just didn’t happen. So, after years of a rollercoaster, we had finally backed off. … I was so frustrated and so angry. I didn’t understand why, after another 12 years of trying, and then, it was just taken away from us. I didn’t understand that. It was really hard.”

Credit: Shutterstock

September 2014

Kody and Meri got divorced allowing him to legally marry Robyn in order to adopt her three children from her previous relationship: David, Aurora and Breanna. “We have chosen to legally restructure our family,” the Browns said in a statement to Us at the time. “We made this decision together as a family. We are grateful to our family, friends and fans for all their love and support.”

During one dramatic Sister Wives episode, Kody revealed that he felt “deceived into a relationship that was very different than what I expected” with his first marriage.

Credit: TLC

June 2016

Two years after her divorce shook up the family dynamic, Meri pursued an online relationship — but things weren’t as they seemed. “At the very beginning, this person was fun, funny, just good conversation,” Meri later explained during an episode of the TLC show after she got catfished by her crush. “At first, it was kind of cool just to have that companionship, I guess. I cared about who I thought she was portraying him to be because I have a trusting heart and a loving heart. … The feelings that I had were confusing.”

At the time, Kody said he felt “lost” in the situation. “Meri and I were struggling enough. It was very hard to communicate,” he recalled.

Credit: TLC; Courtesy Mariah Brown/Instagram

January 2017

During an episode of Sister Wives, Meri and Kody struggled to come to terms with their daughter’s sexual orientation after she came out as gay. “I’m still in a state of processing this,” Kody told the cameras, saying the moment felt like a bomb being dropped. In a confessional, Meri admitted, “This is a little unexpected. I did not see this coming. … Kind of surprises me that she’s known for so long and hasn’t said anything to us.”

Credit: TLC (2)

January 2019

Meri’s dream of opening her own inn caused an uproar during season 13 of Sister Wives, when Kody claimed the effort was “self-indulgent.” At the time, Meri said her venture wasn’t out of a desire “to be alone and independent in the business world or anything like that. It was just something that I needed to get done.” Though the rest of the Browns were skeptical that the bed & breakfast would pay off, Meri hoped they would come around. “I know they support it, and I think that if I needed help with [the inn] they would be right there,” she said.

Credit: Courtesy Meri Brown/Instagram

December 2019

In an emotional Instagram Story during the 2019 holidays, Meri looked back on her past miscarriage while sending support to other women who’ve gone through the same struggle. “I woke up this morning thinking about how it would be to have my 12-year-old boy with me at Christmas this year,” she wrote at the time. “Never thought I’d get the news today that a sweet little mom I know and love would be saying goodbye to her own sweet baby today too. #MiscarriageSucks.” Kody previously admitted during a 2012 episode of Sister Wives that their infertility journey took them both to a “dark place.”

Credit: TLC (2)

April 2020

During an episode of the unscripted series, Kody and Meri decided it was “time for us to actually take the temperature of our relationship” with the help of a professional.

Credit: Courtesy Meri Brown/Instagram

December 2020

Six years after her divorce — and amid a particularly rocky patch in her relationship — Meri reassured fans that she and Kody were in it for the long haul. “Let’s just clarify something here. I love this man. 💙,” she wrote via Instagram. “I don’t owe anyone an explanation but I’ll do it anyway. … My relationship with him is MY relationship with him. Sure we’ve had ups and downs through the years (I mean, isn’t that somewhat normal?) High highs and low lows. … But here’s my truth. I love him. I love my family. I’m committed. I have 30 years in this. We struggle. We communicate. … I’m not going anywhere.”

Credit: Courtesy Meri Brown/Instagram

February 2021

While speaking with Us exclusively, Kody admitted that balancing four wives wasn’t always easy. “Meri and I have been in a very dark place for a very long time,” he explained. “It’s been more about trying to get ourselves out of this hole that we dug ourselves into. … I feel like [my wives] need to understand that — that they can leave. If it’s not working for them, they can leave. Nobody’s going to be a prisoner here.”

Credit: TLC; Puddle Monkey Prods/Kobal/Shutterstock

February 2021

After Kody said during an episode that his relationship with Meri lacked “value,” she revealed exclusively to Us that she didn’t feel the same. “I did not agree with that statement then, nor do I now because I think there is value to it,” she said at the time. “It’s always hard looking back over, you know, some of the not so good and not so graceful moments of the show. … There is always improvement to be made, but I am at peace where I am. I’m happy in my life.”

Credit: TLC

March 2021

During an episode of Sister Wives, Kody revealed that his marriage to Meri started to “dissolve” in 2015 after her catfishing scandal, and it never recovered. While he admitted, “I feel more friendly with Meri than I have felt in six or more years,” he also noted, “It doesn’t mean I’ve got any romantic inclinations within our marriage.”

Credit: Courtesy Meri Brown/Instagram

November 2021

After Christine split from Kody in November 2021, a source exclusively told Us that Kody’s other wives felt “inspired” by the decision. “Meri could not be any farther removed from the other wives and Kody,” the insider said of Kody’s “very independent” first spouse. A second source later revealed that the Wyoming native was “considering starting fresh” with new women.

Credit: Courtesy TLC

January 2022

During the season 16 tell-all reunion, which aired in early 2022, Kody and Meri got honest about where their relationship stands now, with the former admitting that he doesn’t see himself being physical with Meri again.

“I’m not ever going to be in a conjugal relationship with her because I’m not going to go through that emotional torture ever again. … I’m not trying to make Meri sound bad, it’s just a bad match,” he claimed. “There’s a point where intimacy is just damage. It’s misleading to have intimacy in a relationship where there’s no real safety. I’m not going there.”

When asked how it feels to watch Meri and Kody struggle, Christine said, “Oh, my heart breaks when I think about their marriage. I don’t want that. I don’t want to be in a loveless marriage. I don’t know how she does it. I guess she’s more fine with it than I am.”

Credit: Courtesy of Meri Brown/Instagram

April 2022

A few months after the shocking season 16 tell-all aired, Meri seemed to hint that she was prioritizing herself and her own happiness amid her ongoing struggles with Kody. “I was called to love, not to hate. I was called to accept, not to condemn. I was called to be confident, not to fear. I was called to serve, not to neglect. I’m here to love, to learn, to serve, to impact others in a positive way,” she wrote via Instagram. “I am not here to judge, to correct, to hold accountable, anyone but myself.”

She continued: “I am here to laugh, to enjoy life, and live it to it’s [sic] fullest. I fiercely love and protect those in my inner circle, and that circle is far reaching. My calling, my job here on this earth, is to live a life of passion, of confidence, of authenticity, true to who I am, and true to who God made me to be. I am unapologetically me.”

Credit: Courtesy Meri Brown/Instagram

June 2022

Meri publicly supported her child, Leon, after they came out as transgender. “Someone recently told me that I didn’t have to have all of my s–t figured out in order for me to share myself with the world,” Leon wrote via Instagram at the time. “So here’s me, definitely not having almost any of my s–t figured out, to let you know that I am trans. My name is Leon or Leo (i love both) and my pronouns are they/them.”

In response, Meri reposted her child’s post on her Instagram Story, gushing that Leon is “my sunshine.” Kody, for his part, has not publicly commented on the announcement.

Credit: Courtesy of Meri Brown/Instagram

June 2022

Meri enjoyed a solo hike at the Grand Canyon, which she documented via Instagram. “Sometimes life throws little curveballs. Sometimes those curveballs aren’t too shabby. Embrace the change. Embrace the adventure,” she captioned a scenic picture. “This just makes me resolve to actually come spend a whole day out here taking in all the majesty.”

Credit: Courtesy of Meri Brown/Instagram

September 2022

The reality star again traveled by herself amid her and Kody’s ups and downs, this time to Mexico. “What a great day here in Mexico! I spent most of the day on my deck, basking in the sunlight, thinking, planning, reading, writing, all the things that fill my soul!” Meri wrote via Instagram. “Take time for yourself every once in a while! Nurture your heart and your mind. It’s good for you! 💙💙.”

Credit: Courtesy of Meri Brown/Instagram

October 2022

Christine finally told her fellow sister wives that she was leaving Kody during a season 17 episode of the reality show. The unfiltered exchange, which was filmed during spring 2021, was met with mixed emotions — especially from Meri, who reiterated that they all signed on for plural marriage.

“When I married Kody, when Janelle married Kody, when Christine married Kody, when Robyn married Kody — each one of us made a commitment to each other. To all of us. That we would love each other,” Meri explained during a confessional. “That we would respect each other. That we would stick through it thick and thin and we’d work these things out. Come on, you guys, can’t we get our heads out of our butts?”

While Meri hinted that she was still all-in on her marriage to Kody, her spouse confessed during the episode how frustrated he had become with all of his relationships. “I’m going to be the head of my household again,” Kody told all of his wives after Christine’s split announcement. “So, I’m not going to be circumvented in that. If everybody is willing to conform to patriarchy again, I guess.”

He explained: “I’ve been fighting to make everybody happy. My bitterness is out of trying to do that and not having the family that I had thought about and designed. If it is too awkward, or I don’t feel like the head of my household when people are around then I’m not going to have the whole family together.”

Credit: Arlene Richie/Shutterstock

October 2022

Following the death of Meri’s mom in 2021, Kody suggested that his first wife move to Utah to start running her bed and breakfast on her own. During a season 17 episode of the TLC series, Meri revealed just how hurtful Kody’s plan felt in the moment.

“I was here are the very beginning. I helped start this family. It was me and him and we had plans. He loved me,” Meri said during a confessional while holding back tears. “For him to just be like, ‘Um, just go up there now.’ It didn’t make sense.”

Kody, meanwhile, told the cameras: “The reason I’m suggesting this to Meri is, honestly, as a family [it] doesn’t feel like we interact that much. I’m not even trying to push her away.”

Credit: Instagram (2)

December 2022

During the season 17 finale, it was revealed that Janelle and Kody are separated — and he wants out of his marriage with Meri too.

“It’s interesting hearing him talking about this and the parallels that [are] happening with him and Christine and me and him,” Meri explained during a confessional. “It’s kind of disturbing because some of the things he’s frustrated about with Christine, he did with me. Oh, he wants to work on it with Christine, but not me.”

In his own interview, Kody noted: “Ironically, Meri’s trying to support me and I don’t want to be in a relationship with her anymore.”

Credit: Discovery+

December 2022

During part one of season 17’s Sister Wives: One-on-One special, Meri got real about Kody saying he doesn’t “consider” them married after 32 years together. “He just made the decision,” she told host Sukanya Krishnan, confirming their separation. “I have never heard him say that to me.”

Meri explained that while she believed that Kody was “trying” in their relationship when they first moved to Flagstaff in 2018, there was a shift ahead of their most recent anniversary.

“This last anniversary, he’s like, ‘I don’t even know why you called me, Meri.’ He’s like, ‘We’re not married. We’re not acting as married,’” she claimed. “And I said to him then, ‘If that’s where we are, don’t you think that we should address that publicly?’”

The California native alleged that her then-spouse said he didn’t want to “address it.” She recalled him telling her, “‘I don’t want that to be out there publicly because I don’t want that judgment.’” Meri noted that she “would” think about a reconciliation, but pointed out Kody’s “already made the decision” that they’re done.

After confirming she and Kody had split, Meri shared a cryptic message with her Instagram followers. “Not all is always as it seems,” she wrote. “Often, we accept a version of a story as truth because it fits the narrative we’ve created, or what we want to believe. It’s not always about what you’re looking at but also where you’re looking from. Everyone has their own experiences and their own truths. Remember, no matter how flat the pancake is, it always has two sides.”

The photo showed Meri holding an open book with the words, “There’s so much more to the story.”

Credit: Justin Stephens/Discovery (2)

January 2023

“I don’t think Kody realizes the [queen] that I am,” Meri joked during part 3 of Sister Wives: One-on-One. “And if he hasn’t realized it so far, you know, maybe he never will. Maybe he doesn’t want it.”

She confessed: “People change. Maybe he is just at this place that like, ‘She’s just not for me anymore.’ And he’s now finally just saying that.” When asked whether she’s willing to wait on Kody amid their separation, the businesswoman replied, “I don’t know. Time will tell.”

Later that month, Meri and Kody released a joint statement confirming the end of their 30-year marriage. “After more than a decade of working on our relationship in our own unique ways, we made the decision to permanently terminate our marriage relationship,” the statement read.

Credit: Courtesy of Meri Brown/Instagram

January 2024

One year after announcing her split from Kody, Meri revealed she has a new man in her life. “Birthday #53 is looking a bit different for me this year, and might I say, I like how it looks! Meet Amos, the good looking guy I’ve been dating since October!” she wrote via Instagram, sharing photos of her boyfriend. “He’s not 6 foot 6, nor is he a pilot, but he loves Christmas almost as much as I do, and we laugh a lot together, both of which are important elements to a relationship!”